Everyone dreams about something. But chasing those dreams??? Rare!!! very rare!! What would be the reason for this? The bound in the name of family, lack of courage to get into a thing, laziness in implementing the plans etc etc.......Majority of the kids drop their dream for their parents. An emotional blackmail or some sort of warning message from parents finally makes the kids to drop their dreams......
The impact of parents is more while choosing career. And money is only factor that makes parents to decide about a profession. Very few parents see the passion that their kid is having for that job. Another problem is the risk involved in the job. A lot of parents wont allow their kids to go on for jobs in military or journalism. The parents want their kid to live a peaceful and rich life. For that they are ready to be an obstacle for their kid's dream.
I feel that it is this bound by family and emotions which stops kids from dreaming. People say that its this bound which keeps the relationship alive.............
WHAT DO YOU FEEL????
yes. unable to chase the dreams bcoz of emotional threat is very common now. but, this is not only the parent's mistake. the mistake also lies in our education system which is money minded. spendin money n making money is the trend now!! this attitude must change.
ReplyDeleteI do agree with you. Parents restrict children, basically, out of fear! Their intention is good, but yes, it's not good to restrict children from dreaming, deciding their career on their own! Parents should realize the happiness the child gets when he/she sees the dream come true. Their responsibility is to make sure that their children dream sensible things, not something unreal. Children should be appreciated and encouraged if they like to take up challenging career like military service. Parents should feel proud when the child grows up to be fearless! Actually, there is nothing out there in this world, to be scared of!
ReplyDeleteI would Like to say one thing to whoever is dreaming in life is that "Try to Control your mind and heart whenever you dream".
ReplyDeleteJust take parent's words as advice and not indepth in heart.They are just guiding you towards the right path so that you lead a peaceful and happy life.It is you who have to decide your life and not parents.
So kindly dream big and do not believe this emotional drama and all.Listening to parents is like a childish thing.
I accept you. But, We can have Dreams again and again. Even it is restricted when we are kids, We can new dreams that make us succeed the life.
ReplyDelete@vivek: So you are saying no need to maintain relationships???
ReplyDelete@santron: I am not getting your point
@priya: it is not about relationships re.You can maintain till certain stage after that you have to decide your path and not parents..Because they are not going to study instead of you ok.
ReplyDeleteDreaming is a very essential process that should take place with every human being. And the important point is that at what stage u dream about is very important. If u r not an adult, u may not know the world, what will work out and what will not. so u need your parent's guidance.
ReplyDeleteBut once u become a grown up, u need to live your life. Good or bad, u have to test and learn.our parents want us to win always.
but thats not life.
Convincing your parents to execute your dreams lies in your ability. So blaming our parents for our own timidity is a false excuse.
There is nothing wrong in trying new when it doesnt hurt anyone.