Festival :)

Festivals! Aww! Everybody loves it! Why so? Holiday, Sweets, Family, Friends, New Movies etc., etc., The list keeps growing..

And what about the Celebrations! - Do we really have one?

I loved a tweet of someone regarding diwali,

"Ticket புக் பண்ணும்போது இருந்த ஆர்வம் தீபாவளி அன்று இல்லை!"

We eat karumbu for pongal, kozhukatai for vinayagar chathurthi, sundal for saraswati pooja, briyani for ramzan..blah blah blah...Our next generation will actually differentiate the festival only by what they eat for that particular festival.

Appas are busy in buying, ammas are busy in cooking and kids are busy in eating. Who cared about the reasons behind these festivals.

And at last the celebration ends here, "சிறப்பு நிகழ்ச்சிகளை பாருங்கள், X ஐ கொண்டாடுங்கள்"

Go tell your kids what for a festival is, why do we celebrate it...

Culture doesn't lies only in a female's outfit.The beauty of the language, culture, tradition etc., has to travel along with us for leading life in a beautiful way :)  Take it to the next generation! Or else one day you will be showing pongal paanai to your grandchildren in a museum(already it has been kept there :P ). 

கிறுக்கி - By all means!!

எங்கிருந்தோ வந்துவிடுகிறது 
அடுத்தவர் பார்க்கையில்,
தைரியம்!
நாயை கடக்கும் போது மட்டுமல்ல, பல தருணங்களில்.

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எப்போதுமே ரசித்ததில்லை,
இப்போது ரசிக்கத்தான் தோன்றுகிறது,
உனக்காக உருவானதால்!
என் கண்ணீர். என் கவிதை.
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யாம் அறியாத மொழி எனினும் 
இனிமை தான்.
பேசியது நீ ஆதலால்!
விளையாடிக்கொண்டிருக்கிறது  அடுத்த வீடு குழந்தை.
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வீதியிலிருந்து வந்தாலென்ன விடுதியிலிருந்து வந்தாலென்ன,
உனக்கான மரியாதையுண்டு,
எப்பொழுதும் எல்லோரிடத்தும்!
பணம்.
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They share a similarity. I don't know whether they could be classified under some category(!?) or not.

The one week old love

I am getting back to the old topic, 'The Gender'.

Among the relationships between the opposite genders, which one tops your list. Top, in the sense, which strikes your mind first. Grrrr....I'm not gonna give lengthy descriptions about relationships here. And yeah the thing which tops the list is LOVE. Of course! Other relationships doesn't care about the gender. Now don't say does gender gonna be a matter in love?  The answer depends on you :P

And now, here is my question. How do you people identify its love?

Is it silly to ask like that  :P
But really I get a doubt. Whenever a see lovers at budding stage, it looks like infatuation or lust to me. But suddenly when/where it goes serious. A big question mark ???

Does this means I am too ignorant towards love?? :P

Don't say it comes suddenly all the way from sky, as Radha Mohan says "Booom" :P

What forms the basis of lakhs and lakhs of love poems/poem-like things written by people all over the world.

If you think I complicated the question, its simply at what point you felt/realized that you fell in love. Share your thoughts/story/kavithais regarding this :)

And here is my first try towards a kadhal kavithai :P

ஆயிரம் ஆயிரம் பேர் எழுதி தீர்த்த பின்பும்
நான் எழுதுவதற்காகவே
மீதமிருக்கும் காதல் கவிதை,
நீ .....

Aww! :P  Don't ask me why did I write or to whom did I write. Believe me, I just gave a try :P

Accused!!

Without inspecting history, geography, blah blah....I got a external HDD from my brother...

When I received it was junked with a lot of movies. I just left as it is and started copying my stuff into it. As the harddisk traveled a lot before reaching me, the movies were of 'different' range. Poor me doesn't have time to explore the collection. Here started the 'seven and half'!!

A guy took the disk from me for watching movies. One fine day he started exploring it along with his friends. And this was the reaction!!

 What the ......! These kinda movies!! chaaa chaaa chaa!!

I was stamped as a '___' female....

A lil one in the gang believed I can't be like that. He came and said there are bad movies in your HDD. Here goes my reply which shows my "awesomatic arivu". "Was there any vijay movies?" - Me. He said check your disk.

When I checked the HDD, refer figure 2 for my reaction :(

Then I cleaned the disk and forgot it. 

As I said its 'seven and half', will it leave that soon!!

They started giggling, laughing, whenever I talk to them, pass by their way ...conveying that indirectly....blah blah...

Okay now the problem is how to prove my innocence!!! 

Option 1: (Tamil cinema style) Should I say 'unga sister ku intha maadhri situation na will you do like this' 

Option 2: Blast them by showing my anger!! 

                                                                          

                                                        

Option 3: Mudinjathu mudinju pochu, Ellathaiyum mela irukavan paathupaan!! Amen!! 

Option 4: Convey the truth to them and just say "What you see is what you see through 'your' eyes...I can never be responsible for it"!!

                                                           

I choose option 4! What you say.......

Facebook posts by Single Singhams

For the past few months, I could see lots and lots of post about ‘girls’. Ooof!! Enough!! Who is posting all these?? There comes the hilarious part! ;)

These posts mention the feminine gender in general. Generally, people post about the things in which we are interested in.  So, I declare the ones who are posting about girls as the ones having ‘deep’ interest in/about/towards girls.

What’s there in these posts? The quite common one is ‘nee yenna yemaathitta’,'intha ponnungalaam yemaathiduvaanga'. Thambi! If one girl cheated you, post about her. If you dare tag her and post ;) Atha vittutu oorla irukka ponnungala pathi post panra!! If you are considering that Divya or Ramya who has cheated you and arriving a conclusion about all the girls means shall I consider Premaanadha or Nithyaanandha and post that all boys will be like that?

How much you know about girls to post about girls? You agree that you have a ‘deep’ knowledge and so much of ‘experience’, and then you are the right person to post.

There was a posting stating Women as Most dangerous animal in the world. Cha! What a discovery!! Sir has done a research and found the species, genus, kingdom and extras about women. Sir! Did we ask naanga plant uh illa animal uh nu?

I wanna put forth only one question. Ungalukellam vera velaye kedayatha?? Girls! Girls! Girls! I know you have interest athukaaha ipdiya public uh enneram paaru girls pathi post panrathu ;)

I didn’t exaggerate. It’s just a fact which I feel as true. If you don’t agree, c’mon lets fight! 

This Is For You

He is just yet another dirty flirty guy. You can easily find one like him in every street of this city.

He is my relative. To say expandedly, he is my grandpa's brother's daughter's son. To say exactly, he is my 'mama paiyan', the fishy relationship in TN.

As we were not close relatives, we met only during the family functions. According to me, he was a naughty, careless and talkative guy. Let me take you to one of those days.

[I was in my grandpa's home for my cousin's engagement. He came there. I entered the hall from inside, and he was sitting there.]

Me: Hi

He: Hii. Exam time la உனக்கு லீவ் லாம் கேடக்றதா?

Me: ம்ம்.. கஷ்டம்தான்.. But I can't attend the marriage cos of exam. So இப்பவே வந்துட்டேன்.

He: எனக்கு கூட கேடகல. But நீ வரணு சொன்னங்க, அதான் வந்தேன்.

Me: -------- [ Blank ]

He: But waste. உன்ன tenth ல பார்த்தேன், சுமாரா இருந்த. அப்டே இருப்பநு நெனச்சு வந்தேன். ம்ம்ம்ம்!! Waste!!

Me: -------- [ Blank ]

I am a kind of talkative girl. But didn't answer, two reasons. One I didn't expect that, Two I don't know what to answer. He got the point!! I am the one who gets iritated easily and he is the one who can irritate anyone easily!! This is what the relationship we had. After that we met in two or three occasions, A Similar Meeting!!!

But he is no more in this world, not anywhere!! Yes! Day before yesterday he died in an accident.

As I said beginning, he is a careless guy! Already two years back he got severely injured in an accident and now...

As It was a brain dead case, the doctors did organ transplantation and donated 6 of his organs.

Lots and lots of friends and relatives gathered for his funeral. I didn't have guts he see him laying dead! He is only son for his parents. The loss for everyone around him can't be explained in words!!

He had dreams like everyone one of us. But now....

Don't give a chance for anything to take off your life!! Cause life means a lot than anything!!

May his soul rest in peace!!

MeN Vs. WoMeN

"While you SCREAM at your woman, there's a man wishing he could talk softly in her ear.

While you HUMILIATE, OFFEND and INSULT her, there's a man flirting with her and

reminding her how wonderful she is. While you HURT your woman, there's a man wishing

he could make love to her. While you make your woman CRY there's a man stealing smiles

from her." - One Of My Friend's Status In Facebook....This One Made Me Think On The Relationship Between A Guy And A Gal....Relationships in The Sense Father, Brother, Friend, More Than A Friend, Lover, Husband, Classmate etc.....

Once Their Was A Stupid Doubt For Me "Why A Girl Should Marry Only A Boy??(Now Its Not So ;))

Other Than Sex Is there Anything That A Girl Can't Share With Another Girl?? Then Why People Feels So Special About A Girl And A Boy Friendship???

I Have Seen Girls And Boys Texting, Chatting Through Out The Day To Their Close Friends...It Happens 99% With Opposite Gender Only!! Why A Friend Of Same Gender Doesn't Receive These Messages or Talks "Good Morning Dear, Had Lunch?, Reached Hostel?, What Doing?, Slept?, Feeling Bored, U Looked So Cool Today!!" Did You Ever Send These Kind Of Messages To SomeOne Of Your Same Gender??

What Makes All These?? Why A Person Named God Created Adam And Eve In Different Gender??

What Will Be The Content Of The Day And Night Talks?? Especially Over Phone;) That Too To A Person Whom You Saw Before Two Minutes....

Just To Say In A Sentence What Is So Special When The Relationship Happens With A Opposite Gender

PS For Dirty Minds(Like Me ;)): Relationship Doesn't Mean Love Alone....Its The One I Mentioned In The Beginning Of The Post